Not a good image:. There is a lot of truth in what I read here about the unrealistic expectations of singles. As a man on the "wrong" side of 50 I have given equal opportunity to dating women of my own age only to find a lot of neurotic behaviour bordering on all out mental illness.

Now I only seek women under 40 and am pleased with the results. I've worked really hard to stay fit and am cultured and well travelled which leads me to make some startling observations about the ageism which permeates our unsophisticated city. Same thing in Asia and none of them were pros..

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I think girls here mostly find older men repugnant because of their junk food built bodies but also because of the crass boorish way Canadian men signal their interest in younger women. If you're finding it difficult to connect with people here then it's probably because you haven't done anything to broaden your horizons Great article. I think the advice offered by Wolsak and Lee is on the money. Although I no longer live in Vancouver, much of the article's contents also applies to my current locale of Victoria, where the dating scene is also fairly difficult.

As for the woman quoted in the article, I have to say that if I encountered her in a Starbucks, I would not assume she was single. Even worse, I find the caucasian women in vancouver to be arrogant and unfriendly. The asian and east indian women in the city are among the most fun, kind and down to earth people you can meet anywhere, but asking a white woman the time of day carries a risk comparable to smacking a hungry tiger in the rump with a pork chop. It's simply not worth the bother to approach women in casual settings, if the odds are good that you are just going to get treated like a fly in someone's ointment.

Far better to get involved in the community by volunteering, taking dance classes etc. You stand a much better chance of making friends and therefore relationship partners in that manner. Enjoyed this article. Having a number of single friends trying to meet people, I have to shake my head as to why people put barriers up when it comes to just talking to someone new.

Either there's too much judgement or too much paranoia; maybe both. I wish there were more open conversation without expectations on either side. For those of my friends who tell me they have trouble meeting people even through work and the community, I recommend they travel outside the country for some relief from the oppressive stress of it all.

As someone who works in an industry full of young, highly educated and predominately single young men, the most common complain I hear is that women in Vancouver treat men who flirt with them as essentially perverted; that they are made to feel guilty simply by striking up a conversation with a young woman that they are attracted to. I have no idea how widespread this feeling is I am not single and have only been living in the city for six months , but I'm surprised how many young men I work with who have bluntly said that they're either leaving or considering leaving the city because they just can't meet any women here.

For some reason, I get the feeling that there isn't so much a shortage of young singles, but perhaps young people under 35? Anyhow, interested article!

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There is much more to life than "dating" and the seduction ideas of Lee and his peers. Most dating coaches in Vancouver are young unattached guys with limited life experience. Perhaps the many singles in town should look to new sources for help. It's a good read for sure. Vancouver is a tough crowd. Lots of beautiful people but there is a block. It's that, attitute problem. It's a perception of attitude by the sounds of it.

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If you see someone beautiful, you automatically think they are out of your league. It's natural to think that way. I say, use the internet and straight.

Why not? I would.

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There is even a documentary called no fun city about how bad it is here I have the trailer on my computer. I'm from a smallish prairie city and it's hard to relate to this article. Out here, people tend to get hitched up young, so it can be really tough to find a decent single person past age 30 or so.

The people profiled in the article sound very fit, well-healed, wealthy, successful, and high-maintenance. The problem is more the person they see in the mirror. If they "got out there" a bit more, they'd have no major troubles. Just enjoy people. I let all unknown calls go to voice mail. If we all do this then we could beat the scammers.

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